Its not THAT complicated

Ok, so contrary to my last post it really isnt THAT complicated. I changed my mind, which I am allowed to do since I am a multi-fasited female. I cry and laugh, often at the same time, I rage and feel sad, again, often at the same time. But many things in my life arent really that complicated.

As I mentioned in my previous post, when a woman flat out tells you what she wants you should listen. Putting your own spin on it isnt going to help you. Its going to make you look self-absorbed and uninterested in what she is saying. When she says "I want a day at the spa for my birthday" giving her a Ped Egg isnt the answer. When she says "I wanna go on a date to the theather" going to Pizza Hut and the bowling alley isnt the answer. Give her what she wants or dont give her anything at all.

Now there is something to be said about being gratful for what you get. When you ask for a new purse and dont get a Gucci but get a Gucci knockoff at least he tried. When you ask for flowers and he comes home with a boquet of the $5 roses of the side of the highway, at least he tried. But when a specific request is made and seemingly overlooked by your man presenting a completly differnt item/action/behavior that is when the self-absortion comes in and the man looks like a tool.

Of course this is all my personal opinion, so hopefully my husband will read this, but all those times your wife/girlfriend/mother/lover/chick friend said "just do what I say" or "listen to me and life will be easier" or something along those lines, if you actually did it, you'd be amazed at the results!

Its complicated

Women are complicated. How can we not be?! We create and sustain life, we are maid, nurse, driver, tailor, chef, teacher, banker, counselor, vet, sex-kitten and church mouse. Women do so many things our lives are complicated so are brains are likely to be complicated too.

We talk in code at times "I'm fine" REALLY means "I'm not fine, I'm - - -(fill in the blank: pissed, hurt, sad, tired)"..."Leave me alone" REALLY means "Dont leave me alone! Show me you care"..."Shut up!" REALLY means "Say something to fix what you just broke"...So it makes complete sense when men have no clue what we are talking about, AT TIMES.

There is no excuse when a woman flat out tells you what she needs or wants. Regardless of your thought on the matter, whether her need/want is relavent or not, regarless if you THINK you already did that, regardless of what she may have said 5 minutes ago. When a woman flat out tells you what she wants or needs MAN (this means you) you need to pay attention! With all the hats we wear we typically are not going to ask for help or ask for a need or want to be met by anyone else because we usually just do it ourselves or over look it. So when a woman requests something of you, MAKE IT HAPPEN! This will show your love and self-sacrifice and show her that she is #1 in your heart <3

...it isnt that complicated

Perfect Imperfect 10

As I sit here typing this I'm wearing an over-sized t-shirt with holes and probably a fee stains. My hair hasnt been washed today although, thank God, I was able to shower earlier...although that shower I had to share with my toddler. I'm over weight and have stretch marks, I have a scar from my c-section, my feet arent as nice and smooth as I'd like them to be and the only reason I shaved my legs is because I'm wearing a dress to work tomorrow, other wise that probably wouldnt have happened. I have, what us mothers call, "cottage cheese thighs", my breasts have nursed two babies so they arent as nice as I'd like them to be either. My manicure...well suffice it to say I need one. I usually get the minimum amount of sleep needed to survive so at times I have dark circles under my eyes. My hair isnt long, thick and lushish...

I dont match up to the babes in music videos, movies, magazines or the internet. Sorry I'm imperfect.