Another one bite the dust

Growing up I didnt have many girlfriends, my best friend was a guy and I didnt do girly shit. Now that I'm an adult it seems the same holds true. I'm marrying my best friend and I dont have many girlfriends. I had 2 close friends that were only close cause I've known them longer and now I only have one. I can say I'm a damn good person for putting up with drama for 3 yrs and biting my tongue about one night stands and alcohol induced black outs, but I'm really just an enabler. So my choice to quit enabling isnt a big step....unless you say its a step back. Whatever you call it I just dumped about 200lbs of baggage.